Most schools teach health class solely with a fear mongering message that pregnancy or AIDS are the only two concerns when it comes to premarital sex. Or worse they only teach abstinence.


Whether I’m visiting a school or a community group for a book club, as a guest speaker or member of a sex education panel, I am there to give the most honest and comprehensive information when it comes to discussing my experiences with sex and relationships.

LOSING IT is a book I wrote to help fill a void in the sexual education landscape. I detail every last embarrassing experience-as well as the fun ones-when it comes to first love and first intimacy. Whether casual or serious, the relationship aspect of sex is grossly overlooked by schools everywhere. It’s time for that to change.